Love Fully.
02 March 2020
Loving to the fullest is the hardest thing to do for some people.
But as we all know, love comes in all shapes and forms. The way you love your parents and guardians is different from how you love your spouse, partner, boyfriend, or girlfriend. The way you love that one particular song is different from how much you love the bounciness of your favorite sneakers.
The question that's been bugging me lately, is why do we automatically want to give our love exclusively to one individual? Why do we feel threatened or insecure when our spouse tells others of the opposite gender that they love them back?
It's a huge learning curve, friends. For a little while, I felt entitled to have all of the love that my significant other had to give. But that's not how the world works, and that definitely isn't how it should work.
As I said before, love comes in many different forms. The way my boyfriend loves me is different from the way my parents love me, from the way my best friends love me, from the way that his friends love me, from the way my coworkers, teachers, acquaintances, Instagram followers and peers love me.
Instead of thinking that spreading love to one another is a negative thing, lets look at it from a different perspective. If we keep looking at loving others as a negative thing, it will continuously be hard for us to love fully.
Little Victories & Moments
👘 Finally went out thrifting, planning on flipping a majority of the things I walk away with and going thrifting every few weeks.
🤓 Started to talk about fashion again on my Instagram, I always seem to go back to it after every few months and am considering on doing so part time.
✍🏼 Feeling more inspiration to write more and more lately.
🤑 My job is going well and I have fully situated myself (sort of).
📺 Got a new monitor (FREE) from the neighbors in the office space I work at.
🧧 Getting into the habit of checking my finances more frequently and using Simple’s budgeting system to help me save for things like future trips, clothes, and bills.
Things I’ve Been Indulging In—
🧥 Rebuilding my wardrobe.
🧴 Aesop
I hope you all enjoyed my little spiel on loving one another fully. I apologize for not getting out some meaningful content— but at the same time, I don’t feel very apologetic.
I don’t want to push out content for the sake of pushing out content. I want to release things that stick and things that are meaningful, which is why I take such long, consecutive breaks every so often.
I can assure you though, that I will most definitely keep writing. And I’m so thankful and grateful to have you all on board. ☺️
Love,
— J ♡